tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post112105913806897025..comments2023-09-09T00:54:18.251+10:00Comments on PiCkLeS PeRks: Trying to UnderstandPiCkLeShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14982029710936262570noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121227365863210702005-07-13T14:02:00.000+10:002005-07-13T14:02:00.000+10:00Time will heal wounds. Though, I think the time ne...Time will heal wounds. Though, I think the time necessary is determined by the strength of feelings you once had for the ex, the amount of sweet memorable things that you guys have built up and your overall sentimentality.<BR/><BR/>I know, it is pretty difficult when everything you do, everywhere you go, to the extent where little things such as the scent on a passbyer triggers vivid memories of Student154https://www.blogger.com/profile/11050873280136172337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121215942991910012005-07-13T10:52:00.000+10:002005-07-13T10:52:00.000+10:00Its so hard break ups, it's been over a year, and ...Its so hard break ups, it's been over a year, and I would still want to die if i found out my ex was seeing someone else. I dont know if time heals wounds, maybe we just learn to live life differently...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121213598863043452005-07-13T10:13:00.000+10:002005-07-13T10:13:00.000+10:00It is possible to have two people love each other ...It is possible to have two people love each other equally as much or as little? How is love measured anyway... What does it mean when someone loves another 'less'. If my capacity to love another human being was 'x', assuming there is a limit, as long as my capacity is full, will that still be regarded as less compared to someone else who had a bigger capacity to love? No matter how much or littleMeyohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06075066636673976426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121209962414011542005-07-13T09:12:00.000+10:002005-07-13T09:12:00.000+10:00Petals, I surprisingly identify with your situatio...Petals, I surprisingly identify with your situation. I have been there as that guy, and I've felt all the pain and confusion associated with it... <BR/><BR/>I think the imbalance of emotion within a relationship is the most painful thing, for both. Particularly the one that feels the most.<BR/><BR/>However, I do think that it would be nice at least to give love a go. I think, quite often, there Student154https://www.blogger.com/profile/11050873280136172337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121207741300070752005-07-13T08:35:00.000+10:002005-07-13T08:35:00.000+10:00I'm speaking from experience here...I left my ex a...I'm speaking from experience here...<BR/><BR/>I left my ex and it was one of the most painful things I had done, to myself as much as him. You feel horrible to think that you have caused so much pain to someone, especially someone who loves you and who honestly is a genuine person.<BR/><BR/>But at the end of the day, I realised that it would be worse off for the both of us if I continued to petalshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15205349687072938760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121169008672626362005-07-12T21:50:00.000+10:002005-07-12T21:50:00.000+10:00After 2 years apart, I heard the news that he was ...After 2 years apart, I heard the news that he was seeing someone else for the first time and everything felt so raw. Suddenly "maybe one day..." was a figment of my imagination and the comfort zone that I had created for myself had disappeared. It takes a big person to walk away from a futile relationship and I applaud those who have. Take comfort in the fact that you have made the right decisionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121154895786855322005-07-12T17:54:00.000+10:002005-07-12T17:54:00.000+10:00This particular post has triggered a lot of respon...This particular post has triggered a lot of response and in one particular email debate, I made the point that in some cases I stress SOME, people give up too easily (I’m obviously talking about relationships that are quite serious). even for Jacky and I it hasn’t been smooth sailing over the last 7 years (not even close) but we make things work. There will always be times when you question if PiCkLeShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14982029710936262570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121126584000183332005-07-12T10:03:00.000+10:002005-07-12T10:03:00.000+10:00Hey emily....Man, you could not have said this at ...Hey emily....<BR/><BR/>Man, you could not have said this at a better time. It's hard especially when they are all you've known most of all of your 'mature' years. I don't think there's anything more painful than seeing your ex has moved on and you're still hoping for a miracle. <BR/><BR/>But such is life and I suppose you can only get comfort from the phrases: 'things happen for a reason' and 'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121126570443605322005-07-12T10:02:00.000+10:002005-07-12T10:02:00.000+10:00Hey emily....Man, you could not have said this at ...Hey emily....<BR/><BR/>Man, you could not have said this at a better time. It's hard especially when they are all you've known most of all of your 'mature' years. I don't think there's anything more painful than seeing your ex has moved on and you're still hoping for a miracle. <BR/><BR/>But such is life and I suppose you can only get comfort from the phrases: 'things happen for a reason' and 'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974794.post-1121084514887905792005-07-11T22:21:00.000+10:002005-07-11T22:21:00.000+10:00Thanks everyone for all the msn and icq messages! ...Thanks everyone for all the msn and icq messages! took me by suprise! you all know who you are. <BR/><BR/>I definitely value your insight.PiCkLeShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14982029710936262570noreply@blogger.com